Robert colin john Ellender

MORE THAN JUST A SON ROBERT, YOUR EVERYTHING XXXXX




28th october 1989 - 21st april 2007



♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~


MY DARLING SON, MY JOY MY LIFE.


Please could you also remember my mum ~ Valerie Swift, who we sadly lost 6 months befor Robert.


mydarling son robert who sadly left us on the 21st april 07 was 17 years young, living in spain
where he loved the sun and the beach, he loved life . the only baby bro of leanne and
theresa,brother in law to john and niel, uncle of kyanna, miya and meghan,loving grandson, adored
cousin , nephew and godson loved by everybody who knew him, had so so many friends, both in spain
and never forgot and kept in touch with all his friends in plymouth , and further afar ,respected by
everyone and now missed so much, he was looking forward to going in the army and exited at about
to take his first holiday with his mates . to be taken so young so full of life and so much to live
for and so tragically {motorbike accident} and for someone who was never alone to be taken alone,
not given the chance to say goodbye , so cruel. make the future for me now just unbearable, he was
so loving so loyal and so carin, would do anything he could for anybody ,never brought me problems
,just laughter. he was allways playing jokes his dad colin and i never knew when to take him
serious ,he loved his bike and loved to party with his mates loved his girlfriend lauren ,absolutaly
adored his 3 year old twin nieces miya and megan and his 4 year old niece kyanna and spent as much
time as he could with them they adored him and he was so proud to be their uncle he would even joke
around by telling people they were his children whenever he took them for walks to the park or out
in their buggies!!! .i long now for the day i can hold him once more. i miss you my darling son and
love you unconditionaly for eternity.xxxxxxxxx it is so true ,allways the best, why is that? why?
all i pray for now is that there is never any sadness in heavan only joy and laughter because that
was u, allways smiling allways laughing and allways filling everyone elses days with fun and joy. I
LOVE YOU MY DARLING SON> MY LIFE< MY REASON FOR LIVNG.xxxxxxxxxxxxx

www.r-i-p-lil-rob.piczo.com also dedicated to lil rob . on you tube.com

THE RAIN
It's been raining today son, I hate the rain, it never used to bother me, always used to remind me
of the day you were born, it was raining and very windy, id been having niggling pains all thru the
night but the girls wanted to be there when you were born so i let them sleep as long as i could,
eventualy i had no chioce the midwife came and i woke dad and the girls up, they were so exited,
after 4 miscarriages we were told it was unlikely i would carry a son so the girls were looking
forward to meeting thier lil sis ! Out into the rain and wind to the car all rushing, the midwifes
papers suddenly blew out of her hands and down thr street, i knew it wasnt funny but couldnt help it
watching you all chasing the papers was so funny. We got to the hospital the room was warm and cosy
dimmed lights and soft music playing id left my flannel at home so leanne and theresa took it in
turns to wipe my forehead with a waterd SANITATY TOWEL ( a big doctor whites !!!) and were rubbing
my back, but you werent going to hang around, 10 to 7 IT'S A BOY, my god i was so shocked all i kept
repeating was IT'S A BOY, I went for a bath dad went to the phone and your big sisters " lil mums "
with the help of the nurse they bathed you and dressed you, all dressed in white you were so
gorgeous, eventualy at 12 o clock doctor said we could go home, already your nan and grandad were in
the car driving from bournmouth to meet there only grandson. Every body absolutaly adored you, I
remember that day like it was yesterday son, i was so tired but all i wanted to do was hold you and
look at you, your sisters couldnt do enough for thier lil bro and as the years passed on Robert you
know they never stopped adoring you,you became so protective of them and when they had daughters of
thier own you vowed to always protect them too,
21st April 2007 your now 17 years old ,its windy and it's raining and you have not tuned up for work
I prayed to god you were ok, out there in the rain on your bike......... Later that day I came to
see you to hold my son in my arms, there you were asleep surrounded in white just like the day you
were born even in death you were so handsom, but this time i was was not going to carry you home in
my arms, no at 10 to 7 that morning you left us in the arms of angels son in the rain and the wind,
that day i also still remember like it was yesterday, the rain holds the joyest day of my life and
the saddest day of my life. However the rain will never take you from me son your here with me
always, and always a part of all our lives, I just long so much to hold you to see your smile hear
you winding us up, i miss so much about you son i could write a book, at least in the rain no one
can see my tears son every tear full of love for you my precious darling
Robert.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
LOVE YOU



I WOULD LIKE TO SAY A BIG THANKYOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR EVERYONES LOVE AND
SUPPORT TO MYSELF AND MY DARLING ROBERT, WITHOUT YOU LIFE WOULD BE A LOT HARDER TO BARE AT TIMES
THAN IT IS . THANKYOU SO MUCH AND MY LOVE ALLWAYS TO YOU AND YOUR ANGELS. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX




* FOR ROBERT'S 18TH BIRTHDAY *
FOR ROBERT'S 18TH BIRTHDAY WE BOUGHT HIM A BAR... WE CALLED IT "LIL'ROBS" ALL HIS FRIENDS CONTINUE
TO GATHER THERE AND KEEP HIS FUN LOVING CHEERFUL MEMORY ALIVE, MANY NEW PEOPLE NOW COME TO THE BAR
AND COMMENT ON WHAT A LOVELY ATMOSPHERE THE BAR HAS, IF EVER YOUR ON THE COSTA DEL SOL AND NEAR OR
STAYING IN CALAHONDA PLEASE COME AND SAY HELLO AND HAVE A DRINK WITH US IN MEMORY OF OUR LOVED ONE'S
I KNOW ROBERT IS WITH US THERE AND THAT HE WOULD LOVE HAVING HIS OWN BAR (WHAT 18 YEAR OLD WOULD'}NT
.

WE MANAGED TO KEEP LIL'ROB'S BAR GOING FOR TWO YEARS, THEN IT GOT TOO MUCH, BUT WE HAVE HAD SOME
MEMORABLE MOMENTS, MET SOME LOVELY PEOPLE, AND FOR HIS FRIENDS, ADDED TO THE MEMORIES. ♥