| Location | Mijas Costa. Spain Origanally Plymouth Devon. |
| Age | 17 years |
| Cause of Death | Motorbike Accident |
| Date of Birth | 28/10/1989 |
| Date of Death | 21/04/2007 |
| Visitors | 29,286 since 21/12/2007 |
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MORE THAN JUST A SON ROBERT, YOUR EVERYTHING XXXXX
28th october 1989 - 21st april 2007
♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~ ♥ ~
MY DARLING SON, MY JOY MY LIFE.
Please could you also remember my mum ~ Valerie Swift, who we sadly lost 6 months befor Robert.
mydarling son robert who sadly left us on the 21st april 07 was 17 years young, living in spain
where he loved the sun and the beach, he loved life . the only baby bro of leanne and
theresa,brother in law to john and niel, uncle of kyanna, miya and meghan,loving grandson, adored
cousin , nephew and godson loved by everybody who knew him, had so so many friends, both in spain
and never forgot and kept in touch with all his friends in plymouth , and further afar ,respected by
everyone and now missed so much, he was looking forward to going in the army and exited at about
to take his first holiday with his mates . to be taken so young so full of life and so much to live
for and so tragically {motorbike accident} and for someone who was never alone to be taken alone,
not given the chance to say goodbye , so cruel. make the future for me now just unbearable, he was
so loving so loyal and so carin, would do anything he could for anybody ,never brought me problems
,just laughter. he was allways playing jokes his dad colin and i never knew when to take him
serious ,he loved his bike and loved to party with his mates loved his girlfriend lauren ,absolutaly
adored his 3 year old twin nieces miya and megan and his 4 year old niece kyanna and spent as much
time as he could with them they adored him and he was so proud to be their uncle he would even joke
around by telling people they were his children whenever he took them for walks to the park or out
in their buggies!!! .i long now for the day i can hold him once more. i miss you my darling son and
love you unconditionaly for eternity.xxxxxxxxx it is so true ,allways the best, why is that? why?
all i pray for now is that there is never any sadness in heavan only joy and laughter because that
was u, allways smiling allways laughing and allways filling everyone elses days with fun and joy. I
LOVE YOU MY DARLING SON> MY LIFE< MY REASON FOR LIVNG.xxxxxxxxxxxxx
www.r-i-p-lil-rob.piczo.com also dedicated to lil rob . on you tube.com
THE RAIN
It's been raining today son, I hate the rain, it never used to bother me, always used to remind me
of the day you were born, it was raining and very windy, id been having niggling pains all thru the
night but the girls wanted to be there when you were born so i let them sleep as long as i could,
eventualy i had no chioce the midwife came and i woke dad and the girls up, they were so exited,
after 4 miscarriages we were told it was unlikely i would carry a son so the girls were looking
forward to meeting thier lil sis ! Out into the rain and wind to the car all rushing, the midwifes
papers suddenly blew out of her hands and down thr street, i knew it wasnt funny but couldnt help it
watching you all chasing the papers was so funny. We got to the hospital the room was warm and cosy
dimmed lights and soft music playing id left my flannel at home so leanne and theresa took it in
turns to wipe my forehead with a waterd SANITATY TOWEL ( a big doctor whites !!!) and were rubbing
my back, but you werent going to hang around, 10 to 7 IT'S A BOY, my god i was so shocked all i kept
repeating was IT'S A BOY, I went for a bath dad went to the phone and your big sisters " lil mums "
with the help of the nurse they bathed you and dressed you, all dressed in white you were so
gorgeous, eventualy at 12 o clock doctor said we could go home, already your nan and grandad were in
the car driving from bournmouth to meet there only grandson. Every body absolutaly adored you, I
remember that day like it was yesterday son, i was so tired but all i wanted to do was hold you and
look at you, your sisters couldnt do enough for thier lil bro and as the years passed on Robert you
know they never stopped adoring you,you became so protective of them and when they had daughters of
thier own you vowed to always protect them too,
21st April 2007 your now 17 years old ,its windy and it's raining and you have not tuned up for work
I prayed to god you were ok, out there in the rain on your bike......... Later that day I came to
see you to hold my son in my arms, there you were asleep surrounded in white just like the day you
were born even in death you were so handsom, but this time i was was not going to carry you home in
my arms, no at 10 to 7 that morning you left us in the arms of angels son in the rain and the wind,
that day i also still remember like it was yesterday, the rain holds the joyest day of my life and
the saddest day of my life. However the rain will never take you from me son your here with me
always, and always a part of all our lives, I just long so much to hold you to see your smile hear
you winding us up, i miss so much about you son i could write a book, at least in the rain no one
can see my tears son every tear full of love for you my precious darling
Robert.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
LOVE YOU
I WOULD LIKE TO SAY A BIG THANKYOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR EVERYONES LOVE AND
SUPPORT TO MYSELF AND MY DARLING ROBERT, WITHOUT YOU LIFE WOULD BE A LOT HARDER TO BARE AT TIMES
THAN IT IS . THANKYOU SO MUCH AND MY LOVE ALLWAYS TO YOU AND YOUR ANGELS. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
* FOR ROBERT'S 18TH BIRTHDAY *
FOR ROBERT'S 18TH BIRTHDAY WE BOUGHT HIM A BAR... WE CALLED IT "LIL'ROBS" ALL HIS FRIENDS CONTINUE
TO GATHER THERE AND KEEP HIS FUN LOVING CHEERFUL MEMORY ALIVE, MANY NEW PEOPLE NOW COME TO THE BAR
AND COMMENT ON WHAT A LOVELY ATMOSPHERE THE BAR HAS, IF EVER YOUR ON THE COSTA DEL SOL AND NEAR OR
STAYING IN CALAHONDA PLEASE COME AND SAY HELLO AND HAVE A DRINK WITH US IN MEMORY OF OUR LOVED ONE'S
I KNOW ROBERT IS WITH US THERE AND THAT HE WOULD LOVE HAVING HIS OWN BAR (WHAT 18 YEAR OLD WOULD'}NT
.
WE MANAGED TO KEEP LIL'ROB'S BAR GOING FOR TWO YEARS, THEN IT GOT TOO MUCH, BUT WE HAVE HAD SOME
MEMORABLE MOMENTS, MET SOME LOVELY PEOPLE, AND FOR HIS FRIENDS, ADDED TO THE MEMORIES. ♥
The Precious Child I Knew
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A child is such a wondrous gift
And I thank the Lord for you
For knowing such a special child
For the love and joy we knew
Although you’re no longer with me
Precious memories live on in my heart
And in my mind it is clear
That one day we won't be apart
I know we'll be together again
When my time on earth is through
Until then I'll hold a memory close
Of the precious child I knew
Copyright© Ingrid Aspey 15/11/09
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Tributes For Week Starting 16th November
FOR MONDAY
Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our life to share,
But in our hearts you’re always there.
FOR TUESDAY
I sit and wonder every day,
Why the Lord chose to call you away,
I think He saw you needed rest,
He only takes the very best.
FOR WEDNESDAY
Everyday in some small way,
Memories of you come our way,
Though absent, you are always near,
Still missed, loved, always dear.
FOR THURSDAY
Resting where no shadows fall,
In peaceful sleep he awaits us all;
God will link the broken chain,
When one by one we meet again.
FOR FRIDAY
Surrounded by friends
Yet all alone
The one I loved
God has called home
The hugs of friends
Helps ease the pain
And I know my loss
Is my loved one's gain
But tears now flow
Across my face
As I long for just
One more embrace
Then comfort comes
And I see Christ's face
He hugs my loved one
And I feel God's grace.
FOR SATURDAY
Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears...
It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.
My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know..
.
My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.
FOR SUNDAY
When I come to the end of the day
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little, but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared,
Miss me but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the maker's plan,
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds -
Miss me, but let me go.
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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May the angels keep you till morning
May they guide you through the night
May they comfort all your sorrows
May they help you win the fight...
May they keep watch on your soul
May they show you better ways
May they guard you while you're sleeping
May they see you through your days...
May they show you new hopes
May they still your every doubt
May they calm your every fear
May they hear you when you shout...
May the angels keep you till morning
More than this I cannot pray
And if the angels ever fail you,
Then may God be there that day...
~Author unknown~
I opened up a box one day
What treasures did I find!
Letters and some photographs
Of days we left behind
I drifted back to yesterday
The thought was oh, so clear
For just a moment, anyway
It felt like you were here
I smile when I think of you
Sometimes I cry so much
I'm all alone without you now
I long to feel your touch
But God had other plans for you
An Angel he did find
So now my box of memories
Is all that's left behind.
Love Always Julie XXX
Among Us x x x x
♥ . Angels walk among us all,♥
♥ There to catch us before we fall.♥
♥ Through acts of kindness all around,♥
♥ Their love waits to be found.♥
♥ Gently wiping our tears away,♥
♥ As we face another day.♥
♥ Angels hold on to our hands ♥
♥ When no one else understands.♥
♥ God sent Angels for everyone,♥
♥ To guide us ‘til our work is done.♥
♥ They turn struggle into glory,♥
♥ Taking away all the worry.♥
♥ Faith helps us to believe,♥
♥ The love that we receive.♥
♥ God sent his Angels ♥
♥ To take away our troubles!
♥
♥ 15TH NOVEMBER 2009 ♥
♥
It's Sunday again and the days pass so fast,
But my love for you will always last.
The days go by in such a blur,
Oh I wish that you were here.
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Days turn into months..
Months turn into years..
I still love you with all my heart..
And only wish we never had to part.
︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽ ︽♥︽ ︽☆︽
It's Sunday again and there is not a sound,
Theres not even many people walking around.
For Sunday you see is a day of rest..
You should know my angel..
Because you are the best.
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So my darling angel I just want to say...
Have a peaceful Sunday in heaven today.
And remember it's not just on a Sunday I love and miss you..
I love and miss you every day of the week too.
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SENDING YOU SUNDAY BLESSINGS, MAY YOU HAVE A
PEACEFUL DAY, LOVE JUDE. X X
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copyright ~ Jackie Thomas 14/06/09.
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:*♥*: MY DARLING ROBERT :*♥*:
OH SON, I'V HAD SUCH A BAD DAY TODAY, SO UP AND SO DOWN, SO MANY MEMORIES FLOODING THROUGH MY HEAD ALL DAY, LAUGHING ONE MINUTE REMEMBERING SUCH FUN TIMES WITH YOU, ALWAYS LOVED TO SPEND AS MUCH TIME AS I COULD WITH YOU, NEVER A DULL MOMENT, AND THEN TEARS THAT JUST WOULDNT STOP, THE NEXT, I JUST MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH ROBERT, THIS IS JUST SO WRONG, IT SHOULDNT BE THIS WAY ROBERT, YOU SHOULD BE LIVING YOUR LIFE, FILLING EVERYONE'S LIFE WITH LOVE AND LAUGHTER AS YOU ALWAYS DID, TODAY IV JUST WALKED AROUND FUENGIROLA IN SUCH A DAZE, MEMORIES AROUND EVERY CORNER, I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART SON AND MY HEART JUST BREAKS A BIT MORE EVERY DAY WITHOUT YOU, I ONLY TRY FOR YOU ROBERT, BUT IT IS SO HARD, IT REALY IS.
GOODNIGHT MY DARLING, IT'S FRIDAY SO HOPE YOU WILL JION ME LATER. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
My Guardian Angel
My angel's right beside me,
wherever I may go,
keeping close watch over me,
he's my son don't you know.
God took him away from me,
not so long ago,
but he promised he'd never leave me,
dear lord I miss him so.
But I know he's right beside me,
wherever I may go,
for he's my guardian angel,
my love, my life, my soul.
In my thoughts and prayers. Love Liz, Stuart's mum xx
♥ `*•.� 13th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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............( , )..........Your journey on the train of life has ended,
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..........( """"_ )......The fire is out, the wheels stopped turning too,
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...........() )()|| -'....But you are still here with us on our journey,
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...........|.....||........In our hearts as we still love and think of you.
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...........|.....|..........I wish you all a good weekend,
...........|.....|..........With love as always Linda.xxx
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STILL MISSING YOU
They say that there’s a reason.
They say that time will heal.
But neither time nor reason
Will change the way we feel.
For no one knows the heartache
that lies behind our smiles.
No one knows how many times
we have broken down and cried.
We want to tell you something,
so there won't be any doubt.
You're so wonderful to think of
but so hard to be without.
We cannot bring the old days back
when we were all together.
The family chain is broken now
but memories live forever.
GOD BLESS
XXX
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