Robert colin john Ellender

1989 - 2007
LocationMijas Costa. Spain Origanally Plymouth Devon.
Age17 years
Cause of DeathMotorbike Accident
Date of Birth28/10/1989
Date of Death21/04/2007
Visitors29,285 since 21/12/2007
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MORE THAN JUST A SON ROBERT, YOUR EVERYTHING XXXXX




28th october 1989 - 21st april 2007



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MY DARLING SON, MY JOY MY LIFE.


Please could you also remember my mum ~ Valerie Swift, who we sadly lost 6 months befor Robert.


mydarling son robert who sadly left us on the 21st april 07 was 17 years young, living in spain
where he loved the sun and the beach, he loved life . the only baby bro of leanne and
theresa,brother in law to john and niel, uncle of kyanna, miya and meghan,loving grandson, adored
cousin , nephew and godson loved by everybody who knew him, had so so many friends, both in spain
and never forgot and kept in touch with all his friends in plymouth , and further afar ,respected by
everyone and now missed so much, he was looking forward to going in the army and exited at about
to take his first holiday with his mates . to be taken so young so full of life and so much to live
for and so tragically {motorbike accident} and for someone who was never alone to be taken alone,
not given the chance to say goodbye , so cruel. make the future for me now just unbearable, he was
so loving so loyal and so carin, would do anything he could for anybody ,never brought me problems
,just laughter. he was allways playing jokes his dad colin and i never knew when to take him
serious ,he loved his bike and loved to party with his mates loved his girlfriend lauren ,absolutaly
adored his 3 year old twin nieces miya and megan and his 4 year old niece kyanna and spent as much
time as he could with them they adored him and he was so proud to be their uncle he would even joke
around by telling people they were his children whenever he took them for walks to the park or out
in their buggies!!! .i long now for the day i can hold him once more. i miss you my darling son and
love you unconditionaly for eternity.xxxxxxxxx it is so true ,allways the best, why is that? why?
all i pray for now is that there is never any sadness in heavan only joy and laughter because that
was u, allways smiling allways laughing and allways filling everyone elses days with fun and joy. I
LOVE YOU MY DARLING SON> MY LIFE< MY REASON FOR LIVNG.xxxxxxxxxxxxx

www.r-i-p-lil-rob.piczo.com also dedicated to lil rob . on you tube.com

THE RAIN
It's been raining today son, I hate the rain, it never used to bother me, always used to remind me
of the day you were born, it was raining and very windy, id been having niggling pains all thru the
night but the girls wanted to be there when you were born so i let them sleep as long as i could,
eventualy i had no chioce the midwife came and i woke dad and the girls up, they were so exited,
after 4 miscarriages we were told it was unlikely i would carry a son so the girls were looking
forward to meeting thier lil sis ! Out into the rain and wind to the car all rushing, the midwifes
papers suddenly blew out of her hands and down thr street, i knew it wasnt funny but couldnt help it
watching you all chasing the papers was so funny. We got to the hospital the room was warm and cosy
dimmed lights and soft music playing id left my flannel at home so leanne and theresa took it in
turns to wipe my forehead with a waterd SANITATY TOWEL ( a big doctor whites !!!) and were rubbing
my back, but you werent going to hang around, 10 to 7 IT'S A BOY, my god i was so shocked all i kept
repeating was IT'S A BOY, I went for a bath dad went to the phone and your big sisters " lil mums "
with the help of the nurse they bathed you and dressed you, all dressed in white you were so
gorgeous, eventualy at 12 o clock doctor said we could go home, already your nan and grandad were in
the car driving from bournmouth to meet there only grandson. Every body absolutaly adored you, I
remember that day like it was yesterday son, i was so tired but all i wanted to do was hold you and
look at you, your sisters couldnt do enough for thier lil bro and as the years passed on Robert you
know they never stopped adoring you,you became so protective of them and when they had daughters of
thier own you vowed to always protect them too,
21st April 2007 your now 17 years old ,its windy and it's raining and you have not tuned up for work
I prayed to god you were ok, out there in the rain on your bike......... Later that day I came to
see you to hold my son in my arms, there you were asleep surrounded in white just like the day you
were born even in death you were so handsom, but this time i was was not going to carry you home in
my arms, no at 10 to 7 that morning you left us in the arms of angels son in the rain and the wind,
that day i also still remember like it was yesterday, the rain holds the joyest day of my life and
the saddest day of my life. However the rain will never take you from me son your here with me
always, and always a part of all our lives, I just long so much to hold you to see your smile hear
you winding us up, i miss so much about you son i could write a book, at least in the rain no one
can see my tears son every tear full of love for you my precious darling
Robert.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
LOVE YOU



I WOULD LIKE TO SAY A BIG THANKYOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR EVERYONES LOVE AND
SUPPORT TO MYSELF AND MY DARLING ROBERT, WITHOUT YOU LIFE WOULD BE A LOT HARDER TO BARE AT TIMES
THAN IT IS . THANKYOU SO MUCH AND MY LOVE ALLWAYS TO YOU AND YOUR ANGELS. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX




* FOR ROBERT'S 18TH BIRTHDAY *
FOR ROBERT'S 18TH BIRTHDAY WE BOUGHT HIM A BAR... WE CALLED IT "LIL'ROBS" ALL HIS FRIENDS CONTINUE
TO GATHER THERE AND KEEP HIS FUN LOVING CHEERFUL MEMORY ALIVE, MANY NEW PEOPLE NOW COME TO THE BAR
AND COMMENT ON WHAT A LOVELY ATMOSPHERE THE BAR HAS, IF EVER YOUR ON THE COSTA DEL SOL AND NEAR OR
STAYING IN CALAHONDA PLEASE COME AND SAY HELLO AND HAVE A DRINK WITH US IN MEMORY OF OUR LOVED ONE'S
I KNOW ROBERT IS WITH US THERE AND THAT HE WOULD LOVE HAVING HIS OWN BAR (WHAT 18 YEAR OLD WOULD'}NT
.

WE MANAGED TO KEEP LIL'ROB'S BAR GOING FOR TWO YEARS, THEN IT GOT TOO MUCH, BUT WE HAVE HAD SOME
MEMORABLE MOMENTS, MET SOME LOVELY PEOPLE, AND FOR HIS FRIENDS, ADDED TO THE MEMORIES. ♥


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Jude Swaddle (Friend) 2 weeks ago

Hello From Heaven
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It's me again from Heaven
With a message from above
Feel my spirit all around you
As I sprinkle you with love...
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I have watched you, as your tears flow
I have heard your silent screams
I know you sleep with visions
Of me visiting your dreams...
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I have come and sat beside you
Placed my hands upon your face
Wiped away the many teardrops
I so wish I could erase...
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I have watched you every day now
Seen such pain within your eyes
I just wish that there were some way
I could help you realize...
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I am happy up in Heaven
In this peaceful loving place
Where I will be here waiting
To welcome you with my embrace...
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You will join me here in Heaven
When your time comes you’ll see
Leave your Earthly cares behind you
Travel on to where you’re free...
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I have heard you ask to go now
But there is more for you to do
I promise I'll be waiting
When your time on earth is through ...
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WHY DID YOU HAVE TO LEAVE ME.......

WHY DID YOU HAVE TO LEAVE ME AND GO SO FAR AWAY
I WILL REMEMBER EVERY MOMENT WE SHARED I JUST WISH YOU COULD STAY
THE HANDS OF TIME KEEP TURNING THEY SAY THAT LIFE GOES ON
BUT THAT REALLY IS NOT TRUE NOW THAT YOU HAVE GONE

YOU HAVE GONE TO ANOTHER WORLD THAT I CANNOT SEE
WHEY DID IT HAVE TO BE YOU I WOULD RATHER IT HAD BEEN ME
YOU HAD YOUR WHOLE LIFE WAITING AHEAD OF YOU
NOW I FEEL SO LOST I DO NOT KNOW WHAT I SHOULD DO

NOTHING OR NO-ONE CAN BRING YOU BACK HOME TO ME
ONE DAY I WILL BE ABLE TO JOIN YOU THEN I WILL ALSO BE FREE
FREE OF THE HEARTBREAK FREE OF ALL MY TEARS
PAIN IN MY HEART DOES NOT GET EASY OVER THE YEARS

I KNOW I CAN PRETEND THAT I AM DOING JUST FINE
NO-ONE WILL EVER TAKE YOUR PLACE IN THIS HEART OF MINE
THAT PART IS FOR YOU AND WILL ALWAYS BE FOR YOU ALONE
OVER TIME MY SADDNESS AND PAIN HAVE GROWN

I TRY TO DO THINGS TO OCCUPY MY MIND AND TRY TO SMILE
YOU ALWAYS DRIFT BACK INTO MY MIND AFTER A LITTLE WHILE
EVEN WHEN I AM DOING THINGS TRYING TO TAKE MY MIND OF YOU
I FIND THAT THIS IS A IMPOSSIBLE THING FOR ME TO EVEN DO

WHY WOULD I EVEN TRY TO PUT YOU TO THE BACK OF MY MIND
JUST LIKE SO MANY EXPECT CAN THEY NOT SEE THEN THEY MUST BE BLIND
THAT I WILL NEVER STOP HURTING OR CRYING INSIDE
YOU WILL ALWAY BE MY CHILD EVEN THOUGH YOU HAVE DIED

NO-ONE CAN TAKE MY MEMORIES AWAY FROM ME ALTHOUGH THEY TRY
SO NOW I HAVE TO HIDE AWAY MY TEARS I STILL CRY
I WILL NEVER BE ASHAMED OF HOW I REALLY FEEL
EACH DAY
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH I ONLY WISH YOU DID NOT HAVE TO GO AWAY........
copyright Rosalind Roberts 11/11/09

Broken Hearted Mum (Close Friend) 2 weeks ago

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♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ SWEET DREAMS ANGEL

LOVE ALWAYS TRACEY XXXXX

IITH NOVEMBER 2009

✿..LET US REMEMBER THEM...✿

✿ 'Please wear a poppy', the lady said
and held one forth, but I shook my head.
Then I stopped and watched as she offered them there,
And her face was old, and lined with care;
But beneath the scars the years had made
There remained a smile that refused to fade.✿

✿ A boy came wistling down the street,
Bouncing along, on care free feet
His smile was full of joy and fun,
'Lady', said he, 'May I have one?'
When she pinned it on, he turned to say,
'Why do we wear a poppy today?'✿

✿ The lady smiled in her wistful way,
and answered, 'This is Rememberance Day,
And the poppy there is the symbol for,
the gallant men who died in war,
and because they died you and I are free--
Thats why we wear a poppy, you see'.✿

✿ 'I had a boy about your size,
with golden hair and big blue eyes.
He loved to play and jump and shout,
free as a bird he would race about.
As the years went by, he learned and grew
and became a man--as you will, too.' ✿

✿ 'He was fine and strong, with a boyish smile,
but he'd seemed with us such a little while
When war broke out and he went away,
I still remember his face that day.
When he smiled at me and said'Good-bye,
I'll soon be back, mom, so please don't cry'.✿

✿ 'But the war went on and he had to stay,
and all I could do was wait and pray.
His letters told of the awful fight,
(I can see it in my dreams at night),
with the tanks and guns and cruel Barbed wire,
and the mines and bullets, the bombs and fire.'✿

✿'Till at last the war was won-
and thats why we wear a poppy son'.
The small boy turned as if to go,
Then said 'Thanks lady, I'm glad to know.
That sure did sound like an awful fight,
But your Son-- did he come back alright?'✿

✿ A tear rolled down each faded cheek;
she shook her head, but didn't speak.
I slunk away in a sort of shame,
and if you were me you'd have done the same;
For our thanks, in giving, is oft delayed,
though our freedome was bought-and thousands paid.✿

✿ And so when we see a poppy worn, let us reflect on the burden borne
By those who gave their very all
and asked to answer their country's call
That we at home in peace might live.
Then wear a poppy. Remember-- and give!✿

✿ Lest we forget......✿



Copyright ~ 2009 by Blair Leger & ilovepoetry.com

Jude Swaddle (Friend) 2 weeks ago

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TIME WILL EASE THE HURT
by Bruce B. Wilmer

The sadness of the present days
Is locked and set in time,
And meaning to the future
Is a slow and painful climb.
But all the feelings that are now
So vivid and so real
Can't hold their fresh intensity
As time begins to heal.
No wound so deep will ever go
Entirely away;
Yet every hurt becomes
A little less from day to day.
Nothing can erase the painful
Imprints on your mind;
But there are softer memories
That time will let you find.
Though your heart won't let the sadness
Simply slide away,
The echoes will diminish
Even though the memories stay.
♥ `*•.� 12th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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Memories ?

Memories fill the empty space
Where you used to lie
Tears flood my eyes
As I see your face
Your smile
I hear your voice
The humour
I smile...
God Bless You Beautiful Angel
With me all the while
My memories
Take me straight to you
Bridge time and space
Uniting us forever
In an unbroken embrace

LOVE BERNIE XXX

Bernie Hynes (GTS Friend) 2 weeks ago

Sending Love
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ALTHOUGH THE SPACE BETWEEN US
MEANS WERE MILES AND MILES APART
I'LL KEEP YOU CLOSE BESIDE ME
AND FOREVER IN MY HEART.

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BLESSINGS TODAY AND ALWAYS,
Linda

Linda Kenny (GTS Friend) 3 weeks ago

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My broken heart..
Will never mend
So lots of kisses..
I shall send
We think of you..
In a better place
With beautiful wings..
And a smile on your face
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Every day is a struggle you see
Trying to cope..
So please help me

♥*•.

How do I cope?
I do not know
My heart is broken..
So that goes to show

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I can't except you are gone
I need you here..
Please keep me strong
Stay by my side..
Show me the way
Help me to cope every day

♥*•.

I love and miss you so much..
And I always will
Since you have been gone..
Time has stood still

♥*•.

I think of you in heaven..
With Gods Angels up above
Please my precious Angel..
Watch over me with love

♥*•.

Joyce Tidy 3 weeks ago

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Love Shines Through
Like a shadow in the moonlight
Like the whisper of the seas
Like the echoes of a melody
Just beyond our reach
In the shadow of our sorrow
Past the whisper of goodbye
Love shines through eternity
A heartbeat from our eye
By : Catherine Turner

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TIME WILL EASE THE HURT
by Bruce B. Wilmer

The sadness of the present days
Is locked and set in time,
And meaning to the future
Is a slow and painful climb.
But all the feelings that are now
So vivid and so real
Can't hold their fresh intensity
As time begins to heal.
No wound so deep will ever go
Entirely away;
Yet every hurt becomes
A little less from day to day.
Nothing can erase the painful
Imprints on your mind;
But there are softer memories
That time will let you find.
Though your heart won't let the sadness
Simply slide away,
The echoes will diminish
Even though the memories stay.
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Memories ?

Memories fill the empty space
Where you used to lie
Tears flood my eyes
As I see your face
Your smile
I hear your voice
The humour
I smile...
God Bless You Beautiful Angel
With me all the while
My memories
Take me straight to you
Bridge time and space
Uniting us forever
In an unbroken embrace

Have A Lovely Week My Friends.
With Love Always Linda.xxx

Linda Hutt (Friend) 3 weeks ago

10TH NOVEMBER 2009



~Life Beyond ~


Let them go, but not completely.
Hold on to them, but not too tightly.
Love them as you know you will,
as you always have.

Rejoice that they are well, the only difference
now is that you cannot see them,
But you feel them still and they will always be with you.
The spirit does not die as the body dies
and Love is of the spirit.

Nothing you have experienced together can be taken from you.
And your loved one shall be eternally yours in that love.
Weep not too long, that they may also cry,
But rejoice in their life and in yours also.
Let yours continue to be a celebration of all life; of your shared love,
Knowing that God holds you both in the palm of his hand
And in loving you both shall reunite you.

~~ Author Unknown.~~

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